Archive for February, 2005

01st Feb 2005

Photo: Luxor



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02nd Feb 2005

2004: In Retrospect

I guess I was supposed to post something like this a month ago, but a month ago I was still soaking up the sun in Egypt. So, here’s my belated 2004 retrospective in Q&A format that’s been floating around. How was your year?

What did you do in 2004 that you’d never done before?
Show my photos in a gallery.
Go to Guatemala and Egypt.
Sell photos.
Earn Elite status on my favorite airline!

Did anyone close to you die?
For one of the first years in memory… no. Happily, thankfully, no one close to me died. (Other than my super sweet family pet Max, RIP).

What would you like to have in 2005 that you lacked in 2004?
More work-life balance and more sanity. (I’m working on both)

What date from 2004 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
abstain

What was your biggest achievement of the year?
More exercise (for a while)
Better work life balance (for a while)
More international travel (Guatemala, Egypt, India, Quebec)
Showing photos in galleries

What was your biggest failure?
Losing my sanity.
Pushing away a close friend.

What was the best thing you bought in 2004?
Sun lamp
Plane tickets

Where did most of your money go?
Same place it always does – travel

Compared to this time last year, are you:
Older or wiser? I feel older, but I know I’m wiser.
Thinner or fatter? Not thinner, but doing okay.
Richer or poorer? I got a raise, but I put it directly towards my IRA so I’m basically the same.

What do you wish you’d done more of?
Read more books
Take more photos
Exercise consistently

What do you wish you’d done less of?
Work
Stressing out (I did well with not stressing out too much over work. But in an unfortunate and unplanned twist, I seemed to stress out more at home)

What was your favorite TV program?
I don’t watch much TV, but admit that I got sucked into Law & Order (thanks to my lovely roomie Erin). I also found 6 Feet Under at the library and loved Season One!

Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
I don’t hate anyone, anywhere. (Though there were some angry/hurt feeling earlier)

What was your greatest musical discovery?
The Killers are rock stars!

Top 3 Music releases in 2004 in your opinion?
1. The Killers (Hot Fuss)
2. Bob Schneider (I’m Good Now)
3. Modest Mouse (Good News For People Who Love Bad News)

What was your favorite film of this year?
Didn’t see many… maybe Supersize Me or the Brazilian flick City of Gods.

What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
Sanity and/or direction about what I want to do next in life.
Boyfriends who live in my same town. (Don’t get me wrong… they were both great, but would have been even better if they were closer).

How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2004?
I don’t have a fashion concept, but my wardrobe and look is generally too casual. I’m not a slob: I shower daily, I don’t own sweats, and I wear clean coordinated clothes. However, I really should care more about looks than I tend to.

What kept you sane?
Not much… sanity was at an all time low. (Though my sun lamp was good for the few weeks I used it before Egypt)

Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
I don’t follow many public figures… though Bob Schneider always make me smile, and John Kerry gave me great hope for part of the year.

What political issue stirred you the most?
Most of them…. War. Women’s health. Gay marriage. Cuts to social services. Environment. Education. Health care. Nutrition. Governor vote-recount-revote. Etc. Etc. Etc.

Who did you miss?
I regularly miss Beal and Dieter, and TX friends and family. Right now I miss Samer.

Tell of a valuable life lesson learned in 2004:
Life is a balancing act. No matter how low you might feel, in time things will always work themselves out.

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02nd Feb 2005

Oh…

And Happy Birthday Bob Marley! Everyone pull our your favorite Bob CD and let’s have a sing along!

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04th Feb 2005

What will you be doing March 3rd?

bell hooks

Town Hall , Seattle located at Eight and Seneca at 7pm. Admission is free and no tickets are required.

bell hooks (nee Gloria Watkins) is Distinguished Professor of English at City College in New York. Born in Hopkinsville, Kentucky in 1952, hooks, received her B.A. from Stanford University in 1973, her M.A. in 1976 from the University of Wisconsin and her Ph.D. in 1983 from the University of California, Santa Cruz.

Although hooks is mainly known as a feminist thinker, her writings cover a broad range of topics on gender, race, teaching and the significance of media for contemporary culture. She strongly believes that these topics cannot be dealt with as separately, but must be understood as being interconnectedness. As an example, she refers to the idea of a “White Supremacist Capitalist Patriarchy” and its interconnectedness, rather than to its more traditionally separated and component parts.

Celebrated as one of our nation’s leading public intellectuals by the Atlantic Monthly, as well as one of Utne Reader’s 100 Visionaries Who Could Change Your Life, she is a a charismatic speaker who is considered as one of the leading public intellectuals of her generation.

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05th Feb 2005

Yay us!

Caroline and I got up at 8:30am to run around Greenlake today in the 37 degree weather! Yay! And yesterday I got up at 7am to try kickboxing. Double yay for trying new things and for working out two days in a row! :)

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06th Feb 2005

Out of towners never believe me….

There are 88 Starbucks within five miles of my apartment.

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06th Feb 2005

My Weekend of Threes

  • This weekend I received emails from three Lauras.
  • This weekend I sent three care packages in the mail.
  • Yesterday Erin and I hung three walls with three sets of photos (Guatemala, India, and Egypt).
  • Last night I went to three birthday parties.
  • Yesterday I worked out (we did three miles). Today I worked out again (ie. three days in a row).
  • Today I did three things that I rarely ever do:
    1. Went clothes shopping and found stuff that fits and/or looks nice (bought three things).
    2. Saw a movie in a theatre (Million Dollar Baby… cried at least three times).
    3. Watched football (about three minutes worth).
  • Today I received three evites for next weekend (including one “Scary February” party, one birthday, and one “My So Called Love-Life” party).
  • Tonight there were three of us girls, who’d all dated Dieter at one point, in Dieter’s apartment.
  • As of tonight, I’ve delivered all of my sold photos except for three.
  • It’s now three minutes till midnight. G’night y’all!

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08th Feb 2005

Second time in six months

I don’t make it back to Texas very often, despite the fact I lived there almost 20 years and still consider Austin my home. I lived in Houston for two years in the late 90s and I’m heading back there this weekend for a wedding… the second time going to Texas in six months. I had a fantastic circle of friends in Houston, many of who moved away at some point in the past few years. Happily, many will be returning to town for the wedding and I’m excited about the opportunity to see a lot of my favorite people in the same place for the two short days I’ll be in town. Matt’s coming in from Boston, Suzan will be there from NYC, Beal will drive down from Austin, I fly out of Seattle on Friday, and John’s graciously hosting the slumber party to end all slumber parties. :) Should be great fun to see everyone… and it will be wonderful to see Crow & Ajit tie the knot! Hope everyone is well!

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09th Feb 2005

Photo: Hike near Al-Karm



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10th Feb 2005

Happy Birthday Week Continues

Happy Birthday to Caroline! (And John, and Kathleen, and Aleksandra!) Tonight was a birthday dinner for Caroline and it was like playing in a living puzzle… the project was putting faces with names and names with the stories I’ve been hearing for so long! Quite fun!

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10th Feb 2005

Happy Lunar New Year



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10th Feb 2005

Feel good story of the year!

Homeless kids beat out giant corporations with huge budgets to win “Best in Show” at prestigious competition! Read all about it on the Seattle PI website!

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11th Feb 2005

The Big Day

This morning I left for Houston and the reunion has started! Lunch had Gary from LA, John and Cricket from Houston, Suzan and Jeremy from NYC, and little old me from Seattle. Beal and CJ have now joined the party to represent Austin, and we haven’t even gotten to the big event yet! The wedding itself is at the Crockrell Butterfly Center and it promises to be amazing!! Hope everyone is well!

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15th Feb 2005

Flying solo on Valentine’s

Last year I was lucky and got to spend the VD weekend with a boy I adored. This year I was, quite literally, flying solo on Valentine’s Day. Yes, I’m single this year. And yes, I was in Austin this weekend and flew home by myself on the country’s most manufactured love fest. However, no complaints for me. I consider it really good luck that I was able to spend the weekend with family and friends I adored. I also considered it really good luck that I was upgraded to first class tickets for both flights home!

Oh, and a giant thank you to the fantastic friend (who will remain anonymous) who left me the most entertaining voice mail last night: “Just calling to wish you a happy Valentine’s Day and remind you that boys suck and we don’t need them!!” Hope everyone had a lovely day, whether or not you celebrated with pink balloons and red flowers and expensive meals. Take care!

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16th Feb 2005

Photo: Closeness



This weekend was spent connecting with friends at Laura and Ajit’s third wedding extravaganza. Many of you probably don’t know the folks and therefore don’t care about the long, long list of people that showed up from the four corners of the country. I’ll spare y’all those details. And you probably don’t care about how many folks were married or engaged or living with their partner since the last time I saw them so we won’t mention them all by name. You might not care about just how many folks were there from HS, college, work, or Houston. And you might not care about just how beautiful my friends are.

I will say, however, that it felt pretty amazing to be surrounded by such a great group of people. It felt fantastic to joke around so much and laugh, laugh, laugh. It felt fantastic to reminisce about the good old time and laugh at the crazy days of our past. It felt fantastic to dance like a banshee and keep dancing till I was dizzy. Oh, and the hugs. I got sooo many amazing hugs, and squeezes, and kisses, all from friends who felt so comfortable. They felt like home. There were times over the weekend that I couldn’t believe my friends were that fun, that beautiful, that amazing. And then more would call or walk into the room and I’d have to tuck away my sappy thoughts for later and just enjoy the moment being surrounded by close friends.

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When I got into my shuttle yesterday morning to take me home from the airport to my apartment, the driver asked where I had visited. I told him sunny and warm Texas. I was referring to the weather but he responded with “Welcome back to introverted Seattle.” So true, so true indeed.

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17th Feb 2005

What will you be doing April 19th?

Helen Prejean, SJ Founder, Moratorium Campaign & Author
Dead Man Walking – The Journey Continues

Kane Hall, room 130. Admission is Free and free ticket is required (contact the University Bookstore).

Sr. Helen Prejean has served on the board of the National Coalition to Abolish the Death Penalty from 1985–1995, and has served as Chairperson of the Board from 1993–1995. She is also a member of Amnesty International and an honorary member of Murder Victim Families for Reconciliation. She presently is the Honorary Chairperson of Moratorium Campaign, a group gathering signatures for a world-wide moratorium on the death penalty. On December 18, 2000 S. Helen, Paul Hoffman, board member of Amnesty International and Mario Marizziti, representative of The St. Egidio Community in Rome, Italy presented Kofi Annan, Secretary General of the U.N. with 2.5 million signatures from people all over the world who are calling for a moratorium on the death penalty.

Sister Helen was born on April 21, 1939, in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. She joined the Sisters of St. Joseph of Medaille in 1957 and received a B.A. in English and Education from St. Mary’s Dominican College, New Orleans in 1962. In 1973, she earned an M.A. in Religious Education from St. Paul’s University in Ottawa, Canada. She has been the Religious Education Director at St. Frances Cabrini Parish in New Orleans, the Formation Director for her religious community, and has taught junior and senior high school students.

She began her prison ministry in 1981 when she dedicated her life to the poor of New Orleans. While living in the St. Thomas housing project, she became pen pals with Patrick Sonnier, the convicted killer of two teenagers, sentenced to die in the electric chair of Louisiana’s Angola State Prison.

Upon Sonnier’s request, Sister Helen repeatedly visited him as his spiritual advisor. In doing so, her eyes were opened to the Louisiana execution process. Sister Helen turned her experiences into a book that not only made the 1994 American Library Associates Notable Book List, it was also nominated for a 1993 Pulitzer Prize. Dead Man Walking: An Eyewitness Account of the Death Penalty in the United States was number one on the New York Times Best Seller List for 31 weeks. It also made the International Best Seller List and has been translated into ten different languages.

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20th Feb 2005

Live from the nation’s capital

I’m on day three of the conference in Washington DC and I’m surviving better than I’d thought. :) I’ve lead two training workshops and am additionally the facilitator for the whole conference. I wasn’t exited (at all!) about speaking in front of a crowd of 200 people all day long, but am actually pretty content now. I’m not saying I’m a great public speaker (I’d never claim that), but I know it’s my fate for the weekend so no sense stressing out. Might as well enjoy it. It’s been busy so far, but hopefully we’ll find a little time where we can go see the sights and experience the city. Hope y’all are well!

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22nd Feb 2005

Brithday Patrol!

Just wanted to send wishes for a few February birthdays before I forget! Andy’s is today on the 22nd, Kat is on the 26th, and my brother will hit the big three-oh on the 25th! Yay!! And on that note… I’m home from DC, exhasuted, and ready for bed. G’night.

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22nd Feb 2005

Congrats!!

Congrats to my cousin Prentice and her husband Mark! They’re the proud parents of a brand new baby boy! Look for a photo to come sometime soon (hopefully!). :)

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23rd Feb 2005

Another one bites the dust

It’s official: One of my oldest and best friends has proposed to his girl friend and she accepted! I’m feeling a bit protective (less than enthusiastic?) as Charles hasn’t known her for long (about 90 days), but he says they both knew almost instantly. I have lots of arguments for waiting longer, but can’t easily argue against the whole “love at first sight” idea. While I can’t personally confirm it’s existance, I am told it happens.

So, Charles my dear, you deserve the best. I wish you all the happiness in the world.

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24th Feb 2005

Phil’s showing on Friday

Phillustrations Photography at Black Box Gallery (1 night only!)
Friday, February 25th – 7-10 PM

Parking is available on Aurora, in front of the gallery. Or you can also park on 49th.
The artist will be in attendance.
The artist will pose for pictures and sign autographs.
The artist will pour you a glass of wine. (If you get there before it runs out)

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25th Feb 2005

Photo: Spring is in the air



Is 64°F a record high for us in February? The cherry trees are in bloom way early, some daffodils are already blooming too, and that all means the tulips can’t be far behind. It really doesn’t feel like winter to me when I get to wear short sleeves and sandals in February! Doesn’t it make you want to visit the beautiful Northwest? Uh huh, you know you want to visit. As always, my couch is open if you’re interested…

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25th Feb 2005

And…

Happy birthday to my brother Charlie who turns 30 today (the card’s in the mail)! And happy belated birthday to Steph, whose birthday was yesterday. I had made cupcakes to surprise her on Wed, but she bailed last minute on Girls Craft Night and missed out on her birthday treats. Alas… happy birthday anyway!

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26th Feb 2005

This is huge: Egypt announces democratic reform

Egypt’s President Hosni Mubarak has asked parliament to change the constitution to allow multiple candidates in presidential polls. You read that right… Egyptians actually get to pick from multiple candidates now. Read about it on the BBC: Egypt announces democratic reform

Hosni Mubarak is Egypt’s longest-serving ruler since Muhammad Ali in the early 19th Century and one of the longest-serving leaders in the Arab world (20+ years). And this week he announced, for the first time, that they’d open up elections to more than one candidate. For a country that controls rent in the housing market, has no freedom of speech or assembly, is run under a military state, has an economy that relies on baksheesh (bribes/tips) to get anything done, requires mandatory military service for men, and has government run media, this is monumental and impressive and long overdue! Viva Egipto!

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27th Feb 2005

Photo: Ready to bloom



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27th Feb 2005

Always the bridesmaid…

Samantha and I hit the thrift stores yesterday in search of the perfect bridal gowns and accessories. We picked out some pretty entertaining bridal finds at Value Village and Goodwill, and our final stop of the day was at Red Light where Sam and I bemoaned the hoards of cute hipster boys that roam Capital Hill. Neither of us has dated hipsters, but that doesn’t mean we can’t drool over them. Well, who’d have guessed we’d both end up in an “I Saw You” ad a few hours later? I’m the brown hair pink shirt girl mentioned, but Samantha is the target of the ad (not unusual as she’s quite a cutie). Alas… I seem to always the bridesmaid and never the bride. :)

“red head at the Red Light – m4w

i really hope you read these things. you were with another girl — brown hair, pink sweatshirt. you had a cute striped scarf around your neck. we made eye contact a few times and smiled. i should have introduced myself….”

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28th Feb 2005

Save the Taxi!

Best I know, Seattle’s only got one FREE taxi service in town… with the baby blue paint, plush purple interior, and original genuine Checker cab frame (from the Checker Motors Company founded in 1922). My buddy Jacob is the founder, and his cab needs some love. Come to the fundraiser on March 12 (with BBQ, live music from local bands, and other excitement yet to be announced). Or, just make a donation online for this worthy good cause. Find out more at http://freeridecabs.com.

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28th Feb 2005

Undies in the door and other memories

Four years ago today I started my morning like I still start most of my mornings. I sat at the computer and checked my email like I generally do each day before work. That morning I was impressed that my roomie was not only up early, but was also playing with the cats and giving them much needed attention. At least, I assumed that’s what all the noise was at that hour of the morning. (When you have a basement room and above you there are hard wood floors, it can be kind of loud, ya know?) Of course, when the noise and rumbling continued, and when the lamp fell, and the bookshelf crashed to the ground, and the bucket of water outside near the plants started sloshing around, I quickly put 2 and 2 together. It wasn’t Ross upstairs playing with the kitties making noise in the morning… it was the Nisqually earthquake. The rumbles eventually stopped, I was a little shaken, and I ran to the stairs to check the rest of the house. That’s when I saw my roomie in his undies bracing himself in the doorframe for safety. Quite memorable. He rushed to work to check on his office, leaving me home on my own to fret about aftershocks. Let’s recap my first month in Seattle, shall we? We had a freak snowstorm (with enough snow to weight down a tree branch until it broke and fell into my windshield). We had a riot at a Mardi Gras celebration that ended with cars being overturned, fires in the streets, and a couple of people dead. And we had an 6.7 magnitude earthquake with $4 billion in damage.

I was new in town, just barely learning about Seattle’s mountains and lakes, and I had no clue at the time that Washington state had the second-highest risk of earthquake in the United States. It was quite a fun “Welcome to Seattle” series of events for my first month in town! I figured with excitement like that, I’d have to stick around here just to see what else the city had up its sleeve.

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